Before I went on meds I didn't even consider aroace. I kept jumping between bi and lesbian. Because…

Before I went on meds I didn't even consider aroace. I kept jumping between bi and lesbian. Because frankly, I like ladies more. I thought fantasies equaled who I was. It doesn't! I can dream of prince charming, but want a warrior princess irl. Queerness is messy but valid. Calling myself gay helps me relax that inner battle. 🌈







